What kind of democracy and humanity, can we talk about when the slightest attempt to express their opinions, you risk to be in the so-called 'kontslagere'-alone and humiliated by the' dictate '. As a rule, these same teens 'dictate' are stupider than others, lost out in what – or, more evil, but they have leadership qualities. In any case, 'white crow' only two choices: go on about a "gray" or remain a person, really a person, and go to his purpose. Unfortunately, often the first option is easier, and we 'lose' unique people. The second option selected strong men, strictly convinced of the correctness of their actions, those people who have inherent qualities of independence and strength. That brings us to the central question – whether well be white black? In my opinion, better shape as a person and endure ridicule from ignorant and stupid people, rather than become 'gray mass. " Everyone has their own choice, your way, but we must remember one thing that is very often the people who once faced with this problem, further difficulties arise with the expression of opinion, they are closed and lose all independence. So let's not go back to the 'dark years', will do our best to support people in their endeavors, we will be wiser, kinder and let everyone be just a little 'black sheep', then perhaps society will be better educated, more kind and our country will really be a democracy.
Support for those whose souls are asking for help, whose souls are tired of being lonely, so those who want to understand them … Addressing the parents, I would say that your help is help, not condemnation may play an important role in child's life, especially in this situation. I would advise to sit down with your child for the 'talks' and try to derive babe in frank conversation. Understand, your main task. Try to find out that your child feels that they driven by the thoughts of his visit, to avoid unpredictable situations, be kinder, and as often as possible with the child. In any case, do not leave this issue for a reason. But do not push, if a child is hidden from you, then go to psychologist.