When this occurs, all those mritos that the adoptive parents had acquired for occasion of the adoption, goes below for water, because they demonstrate to its egoism and its lack of humanity. The adopted child, who many times, is adopted because the woman does not obtain to engravidar, exactly making fertilizao, she does not have guilt of them to have obtained to have a biological son and therefore she cannot be left of side. The adopted child cannot be treated as a toy or something transitory, while the couple does not obtain to have a son. It is a being, that most of the time, was rejected in the maternal womb, other times, she is victim of domestic violence and or sexual and therefore led for one it marries of ticket or already it passed for the trauma of the separation of the parents. Therefore, before adopting or going to live with that already it has son, it is necessary to evaluate if it is prepared to accept and to deal with this child. If it will not go to make of it its garbage can, where it will deposit all its frustrations, raivas, ressentimentos and hurts, when it will have a biological son. Therefore, it is important before taking this decision, to think if is prepared to be father or mother of a child who is not its. To the times one thinks that yes, until the moment where the biological son is born. From now on, the adopted son starts to be a dismissable and devaluated part in its life, that will have to grow and to take its fastest route possible. To adopt is only a love act when the conscience of what it is making, of the responsibility exists clearly that is assuming and mainly when it receives child as if its son were, without making no type of discrimination. Independent to have or not biological children.